Revelation 21:4 "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away."
It is difficult to see someone you love in pain and not be able to really do much to help them. Right now I am watching my son go through the five stages grief and it is so heartbreaking to witness. Grief takes time, and I do not think we really ever fully heal from losing someone. It is like a wound that can open up at any moment no matter how much time has passed. I know this is true for me. I lost my father while I was in high school, and the smallest reminder can trigger a very emotional reaction that can bring me right back to that time almost four decades ago. I think I feel a deep empathy for any person experiencing loss because of the impact losing him had on my life. My sister-in-law reminded me of the saying that grief is just love with nowhere to go. This is so very true and beautifully puts simple words to a difficult and complex process.
The only thing any of us can really do for those around us who have experienced loss is be there for the person grieving and pray for them. We are to bear each other's burdens, but only God can bring the peace that passes all understanding. Another action we can take is to live our lives to the fullest, and never miss an opportunity to say I love you. Recently, for me, I also do not want to miss a chance to tell others that God loves them even more. His love is the most important love of all.
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Condolences to your son for his loss. My household shall offer up a prayer on behalf of your son, your family and his lost one.
Thank you for your kind words and prayers.
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